Healing Beyond the Pain: Rediscovering Yourself After Trauma

For many, the notion of fully healing from severe childhood trauma seems unattainable. It's a belief I carried for years. They say, “You can never fully recover from trauma.” I used to believe that, too. But here I am today—living proof that healing is not only possible but transformative.

Adri de Lange

11/22/20243 min read

My Journey: From Pain to Purpose

For most of my life, I lived in a cycle of running from the pain or finding ways to numb it. I sought refuge in male-dominated careers, convincing myself that success and ego could shield me from everything I didn’t want to face. I stayed in relationships with narcissists because, deep down, I didn’t recognize my own worth.

Every choice I made and every pattern I repeated was rooted in the trauma I carried—wounds from a childhood that shaped the way I saw the world and myself.

But this year, in May, everything changed. To celebrate my birthday, I gave myself the greatest gift I could ever imagine: the gift of healing.

The Turning Point

Choosing to heal wasn’t easy—it was messy, uncomfortable, and at times, terrifying. But it was also the most liberating decision I ever made. I knew I didn’t want to spend countless hours on a couch, diving into the pain and reliving every awful moment. I’d tried that path before, and it didn’t work for me. I needed something different, something that resonated with my soul.

What worked for me?

Spiritual Alignment
I found peace and clarity by aligning with Spirit, my higher self, and the universe. It wasn’t about religion or a specific belief system—it was about connecting to the wisdom within me and trusting the guidance it provided.

Energetic Clearing and Healing
By identifying and releasing energy blockages, I began to let go of what no longer served me. This process allowed me to reclaim my power and create space for renewal and transformation.

Rediscovering My Soul’s Purpose
Through this journey, I reconnected with my authentic self and finally stepped into my soul’s purpose. It was a moment of alignment and clarity that changed everything.

Healing Isn’t Easy, But It’s Worth It

Healing doesn’t happen overnight, and it isn’t a one-size-fits-all journey. It’s messy, uncomfortable, and sometimes painful. But it’s also empowering, liberating, and deeply transformative. It doesn’t have to take 50 years to heal, as it did for me. Once I committed to the process, the shifts were profound and life-changing.

Looking back now, I can say with confidence that the pain no longer defines me. Instead, it has become a part of my story—one that fuels my purpose and passion to help others.

What Happens in a Session?

Every healing journey is unique, and every session I hold is tailored to the client’s specific needs. My approach isn’t about reliving trauma or revisiting every painful memory. It’s about creating a safe, supportive space where transformation can happen.

A Safe Space
As an intuitive and empath, I create a space where clients feel seen, heard, and supported. This is a judgment-free zone where you show up as your authentic self.

Energy Work
Through energetic alignment, we work together to identify and release blockages that may be holding you back. This involves cutting ties with what no longer serves you and creating space for new, empowering energy to flow.

Intuitive Guidance
Each session is guided by intuition, meeting you exactly where you are in your journey. It’s not about pushing you to relive painful memories—it’s about helping you reconnect with your inner strength and purpose.

Transformation and Renewal
The focus is on creating a sense of alignment, clarity, and empowerment. It’s about helping you take the first step toward the life you truly deserve.

Why This Approach Works

What makes this approach different? It’s deeply personal. It’s about aligning with Spirit, trusting in your inner wisdom, and letting the process guide us. My work draws from my own healing journey, and the lessons I’ve learned have equipped me to support others on theirs.

Healing is an investment in yourself—a commitment to reclaim your peace, your joy, and your future. It’s not just about fixing what’s broken. It’s about stepping into the most empowered version of yourself.

You Don’t Have to Stay Stuck

If my story resonates with you, I want you to know that you don’t have to stay stuck. You don’t have to carry the weight of your past forever. Healing is possible, and it doesn’t have to take a lifetime.

Every journey begins with a single step. If you’re ready to take that step, I’m here to hold space for you.

🌟 Book a 1:1 Session Today
Let’s create a space where healing, empowerment, and transformation happen. Together, we’ll work to align your energy, clear what no longer serves you, and guide you toward the life you deserve. 🌟

Final Thoughts

Healing from severe childhood trauma may feel impossible, but it’s not. It’s a journey—a messy, beautiful, transformative journey—that leads to empowerment and peace. And you don’t have to walk it alone.

Let’s take that first step together. The life you deserve is waiting for you.

Ready to begin your journey? Book your 1:1 session today and take the first step toward a brighter, more aligned future.